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This life-changing, week online course for unfaithful partners provides community, encouragement, and a path to freedom. When a spouse is kept in the dark regarding the details of their spouse's affair, it's similar to feeling trapped in darkness, trying to find their way out. People naturally try to understand the events of their life. Until we are able to make sense of these events, a part of us continues trying to solve the mystery. If a spouse withholds information regarding their secret life, how long do you think someone who's been devastated by betrayal will spend trying to find the answer to their questions?

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My husband cheated two years ago and I just found out..

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Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation. Remember me. Husband cheated years ago. Start Prev 1 Next End 1. Husband cheated years ago was created by Natz. Hi like many of you,you never think you'd be in this situation. I have just recently found out my husband of 11 years married together for 13 cheated on me around 18 month after we were married. He never had intercourse with her it was all dirty messages and oral in his car.

I have 3 beautiful children to him. I am absolutely heartbroken as he has made me feel I wasn't good enough for him and I feel my marriage has been a lie all these years.

I've kicked him out and he's begging me to give it another go and he knows it's going to take a long time to build us back up. I don't know what to do my heart in pieces and I know it will break my children if we separated but I don't know if I'll ever trust him again. Any advice would be truly grateful. Replied by sal on topic Husband cheated years ago. This is a tough one.

It happened roughly 10 years ago, correct? I am curious how you found out. More importantly, how have things been for the last 10 years? Do you suspect other affairs during that time? For the record, I am a man, and I was the person who was cheated on in my marriage. I chose to try to forgive and move forward, which has been very difficult, and I often wonder if that was a bad decision. No one here can tell you what to do or how to feel. But the answers to the questions I asked above might help determine how to move forward.

I would in no way excuse what he did, but if it was a one-time thing, he realizes it was wrong and he has not done anything since, I think you might want to take those into account. For some people, infidelity is a showstopper, and if you're one of those people, then it's time to move on. Also, don't use your children as an excuse to stay with him. Sure, they will be upset at first, but if you and your husband are able to co-parent in a positive way, they will learn from that.

And it will be better than having them live in a potentially toxic environment if you can't forgive him but decide to stay together for the kids. If you are not happy, you can't be as good a mother and example to them, IMO. Best of luck! The following user s said Thank You: Natz.

Replied by Natz on topic Husband cheated years ago. Hi Sal I'm so sorry to hear you have been through this too can I ask how long have you been together since you forgave?. I found out off the person he cheated on me with I was out one night and she recognised me and told me what happened according to her it happened twice and he told her he had cheated on me before and that I wouldn't be suspicious of anything.

He has denied everything that she had said but admitted to that once in his car and promises me as soon as it happened he realised made a mistake. He has apologised on numerous occasions and I know it will take a long time to build anything up if there is something to build on. My head Is in shambles and my heart is broken we have spent time arguing in the past and a few times wanted to leave him few year ago but I loved him and couldn't imagine my life without him so stayed.

I know couples do get over infidelity and sometimes makes them stronger but I just don't know how long it will take to forgive. Hi Sal I am new to this and I pressed something on your page the karma button I'm unsure what that is for so my apologies for that and thanks again. Replied by Betrayed Wife on topic Husband cheated years ago. Whether a couple gets past infidelity depends a lot on the cheater and his attitude.

I find it troubling if this is true what the woman told you that he cheated on you before and he knew you wouldn't be suspicious. That sort of laughing behind your spouses' back sticks in my crawl. He has sort of established a pattern, cheating on you once and maybe even twice.

Does he admit to cheating before this woman? He has apologized, but are his apologies sincere? It also sounds like he's downplaying what he did as cheaters often do by saying it was only once and that he immediately knew it was wrong.

You think? I'm sorry, but you know going IN to a situation like cheating that it is wrong, not afterward. And it doesn't matter if it was oral or if it was intercourse-- it's all bad. Why do men think it's a lesser offense to have oral than intercourse? It's still sexual activity. If he's truly sorry he'll do anything he can to show his remorse, do anything you ask him to do in order to rebuild trust, he'll be honest about this woman and any other women he might have cheated with.

You also said you wanted to leave him before, so obviously there are other issues in your marriage. Whatever issues those were, you need to work on those too. It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness -- ancient proverb.

Hi thanks for reply he is adamant he has only cheated that one time only I have asked him over and over again and still sticking to the same. I think his apologies are sincere but then again he's lied all these years so it's hard to believe at the minute. Yeah we have had issues in past and know them as well are going to be a hurdle to get over too.

I have told him I don't know if we will get through this and if we do it is going to be a one day at a time and could take a very long time to build my trust back up a know staying together for the children is not a reason to stay but then I feel do I owe it to the kids to try and keep the family together. I just don't know at the minute this is still so fresh as only happened few days ago and everything is going through my mind.

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My Husband Cheated Years Ago But I Just Found Out

Five years later so much has changed in my life. We sent our oldest child off to college this fall and our younger two boys are in high school. We live busy lives and our children are becoming increasingly independent. In the same moment I am feeling love and pride, I am also feeling sad and alone.

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It's one of those defining moments. One partner strays, rocking the foundation of a relationship and you find yourself at a fork in the road. Do you try to patch things up? Or is infidelity a deal breaker? After all, once the trust is broken, can you ever really repair the cracks?

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