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Our relationship was a long distance one and he always made time to visit me, so I assumed he had invested a lot in our relationship. I found this out after we had sorted out our wedding etc. I forgave him and we went ahead with the wedding. I recently had some doubts about whether I can still trust him and I looked through his phone and found out that since our discussion he has not been in contact with his ex and he has blocked her from contacting him again. And from the messages it looks like they did meet up.

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Should I Tell My Husband I Cheated before We Were Married?

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So, husband finally came out and told me he cheated over a decade ago. It was when we were dating and have been happily married for a very long time. Luckily they did not have intercourse. It was stupid and ridiculous because they both have attachment issues because of childhood issues. He never raised her or changed diapers and really she is not a true stepsister.

I just need some wise words and encouragement as this has rocked my every sense of being and sense of self esteem. I have never felt so betrayed by the one person who I trusted the most. I am having PTSD because he told me all the details while we were both in crisis mode—angry—hurt—distraught….

I am on the verge of taking medication to take the edge off on the advisement of my therapist. Has anyone been through something like this? I can feel your distress in your short post. I is evident and almost tangible. From a calmer place, i would proceed. The two of you have been quite distressed and I suppose he impulsively told you what he did to relieve himself from his distress, increasing your distress in the process.

Not well thought of… acts of desperation, I suppose. Please calm yourself, get into some calming routine. You are welcome, and I do hope you rebuild your name here your calm and confidence in your mind and relationship.

Once you and him are calm, individually, you can both think clearly, individually and make your communication sensible. Please do post again. You must be logged in to reply to this topic. Please log in OR register. This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice. The content on Tiny Buddha is designed to support, not replace, medical or psychiatric treatment.

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Just found out husband cheated before we were married.. This topic has 3 replies, 2 voices, and was last updated 4 years, 2 months ago by anita. Viewing 4 posts - 1 through 4 of 4 total. February 23, at am Dear rebuild I can feel your distress in your short post. February 24, at am Thanks Anita. I am truly trying.

February 24, at pm Dear rebuild You are welcome, and I do hope you rebuild your name here your calm and confidence in your mind and relationship. Disclaimer This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice.

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Can He Be Trusted to Stay Faithful?

Photo by Stocksy. It has been a decade since I married my cheating husband. I was madly in love when the man of my dreams dropped to one knee and asked me to be his wife. That was the happiest day of my life. Everything I had planned for my future was falling seamlessly into place, and the only thing I had to do was say, "Yes!

My name is AJ. I have been married to my husband for 2 years, we have been together for 8. I recently found out that he cheated on me with two different women during the time we were dating.

Hi everyone, Not sure where to turn with this bombshell that has just been dropped on me. I found out yesterday that my husband cheated on me before we were married meaning, he cheated on me about 3 years ago. He complied and I found nothing until I went back to early we were married at the end of , when I found some angry texts from a woman he was sleeping with then. A week before we got engaged, he broke it off with her since he wanted to commit to me.

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NOTE: After you have installed the app, return to this page and tap on the launch button. This website is design to be a two-way conversion. It was a great session I had with Suzie, more than exceeded my expectations and was of great help. Thank you very much for organizing this and I will definitely book some more coaching with her. My heart is hurt and I am struggling to make the right decision if I should stay or go. We were in a committed relationship, though, so does he get a second chance just because it was prior to us getting married? Please help… I love him with all my heart and I am a better person with him, but I am still shocked that he would do something like this. He keeps commenting that we have so much good, which we do, so why would I throw it all away? Or can someone change?

I Discovered My Husband Cheated Before Marriage; What Should I Do?

Dear Amy: My wife and I were in a relationship before we got married. At that time, she cheated on me. Only those people who have had a spouse cheat on them will understand how I felt at that time. It was the most painful time of my life.

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Found out my husband cheated on me for a year — not when we were married but when we were dating. He didn't come clean on his own. I found an email while looking for the Peapod delivery time. That would be because I'm a stay-at-home mom of two young sons.

Ask Amy: She cheated before they married and he can’t get over it

You've probably wondered before, "If my husband cheated on me, what would I do? Bankrupt him? Never let him see our kids again? Sure, that's what we think we'd do.

That something is the fact that you cheated on him before you were married. These reasons to tell or not to tell will help you make the right decision. To lift off that burden, you should consider telling your husband the truth. This may seem a little selfish as it focuses on your feelings more than on his. A marriage is vulnerable when someone is being dishonest. If you love your husband and want to save the marriage then tell him that you cheated.

Husband cheated on me before we were married

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So, husband finally came out and told me he cheated over a decade ago. It was when we were dating and have been happily married for a very long time.

So, husband finally came out and told me he cheated over a decade ago. It was when we were dating and have been happily married for a very long time. Luckily they did not have intercourse.

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My husband and I have been together for four years, only married for 1. I caught them texting after just a few weeks and immediately left him; he had moved in with me about three months into our relationship, so I kicked him out as well. He right away moved in with this girl, for about two months.

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